Share your fetish with others
One of the kinkiest and sexiest parts of sex is sharing one's fetish. But most don't know how to do it properly or just plain scared and ashamed of being tagged as a weirdo and sexual deviant. So, how do you share your fetish with others and avoid all that drama? Discussing your fantasy, fetish or any simple kinky request to your sexual partner is an art form and everyone has one. Be true to yourself is the first thing to know and understand that everyone has some type of sexual fantasies, how hardcore fetish looking it may be or just tiny sexual requests, we all have one. The key to fully enjoying sex is sharing these fantasies and fetishes and making it happen with the consent of your partner. But saying that is far easier than doing right? Well here are some steps to do it properly and make your fantasy to reality!
Like what I mentioned earlier, the first step is all about realization and understanding that everyone has sexual desires. Before asking someone to perform sexual fetishes during actual sex, make sure you are comfortable with your own fetish first. It's your desires, your fetishes, take full control of it and admit that you enjoy it! The second step on the right way to share your fetish with others is to properly communicate you partner with your and her desires. If your partner has hidden kinky fetishes then it's a plus and life is easier for you. If you're sexual partner thinks that it is bizarre, don't fret and explain to her that fetishes are intimate sexual desires that aims to make both of you closer not the other way around. Most people think that fetishes just objectify sex. On the contrary if both of you are fulfilled sexually, which what fetishes does, then everything falls perfectly into place.
The next step is to show that thousands of people from all around the world are doing your fetish and it is not at all bizarre or weird. Relay that your fetish might by uncommon but it is not abnormal. You can do this by showing related fetish resources such as movies, magazines, pornography pro and amateur as well as adult fetish sites. Sexual kinks, fetishes and fantasies are common in every one of us; it just differs on what we get aroused on. The last step to effectively share your fetish with others is to remember that you have to start it slow. Just like the famous saying, aim big miss big. Work your way through small baby steps. It allows your sexual parent to get comfortable herself and adjust to the idea of your specified fetish. This is actually the most important thing, let yourself and your partner adjust and get full comfortable!Follow these steps and you'll be on your way to have that dream sexual fantasy come true!